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Get ready to be inspired! Join us as we chat with Anastasia Rubis about her debut novel, ORIANA. After 11 years of hard work, she published her first book in her 60s, and we’re betting it’ll be optioned for the big screen.

In ORIANA, Stacey explores the extraordinary life of journalist Oriana Fallaci (description below), and in our conversation, she opens up about perseverance, chasing dreams no matter your age, and shares how Oriana’s fierce determination became a role model for her own tenacity. Whether you’re an aspiring writer, a historical fiction fan, or need a little nudge to follow your dreams, this episode is for you!

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We give the book 4 stars out of 4!  ⭐⭐⭐⭐

“A captivating page-turner intertwining a love story, 20th-century historical events, and the journey of a pioneering journalist Oriana Fallaci. Effortlessly enjoyable.”  Lost in Jersey

“Inhaled this riveting page-turner on the fascinating trailblazing journalist Oriana Fallaci. Just one question: how did I not know about this incredible woman?” —Julia Martin, New Jersey Monthly

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Episode Summary

Interview with Anastasia Rubis (Stacey)

Introduction

In this episode, hosts Janette and Rachel interview Anastasia Rubis, known as Stacey, the author of ORIANA, a novel about the renowned journalist Oriana Fallaci. The hosts discuss Stacey’s background, her writing journey, and the inspiration behind her debut novel.

Stacey’s Background

  • Early Life: Stacey was born and raised in Queens, New York, until the age of eight, after which her family moved to Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey. She is of Greek descent, being a first-generation American.
  • Education: She graduated from Brown University and later earned a master’s degree in English from Montclair State University.
  • Career Path: Before becoming a writer, Stacey worked in advertising and public relations while pursuing her passion for writing in her free time.

The Writing Journey

  • Initial Writing Experience: Stacey began writing in New York City, contributing to publications like the New York Observer and the New York Times. She faced challenges in the freelance writing world, where acceptance rates were low.
  • Move to Montclair: After living in Manhattan for 14 years, Stacey moved back to New Jersey to be closer to family and chose Montclair for its vibrant cultural scene. She credits her time at Montclair State University and local bookstores for reigniting her passion for writing.

The Creation of ORIANA

  • Inspiration: Stacey’s interest in Oriana Fallaci began when she discovered Fallaci’s novel A Man while on vacation in Greece. This led her to explore Fallaci’s life and work, which she found compelling and inspiring.
  • Writing Process: The journey to publish Oriana took 11 years, during which Stacey faced numerous challenges, including working with multiple agents and navigating the publishing landscape during the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Publishing Journey: After parting ways with her second agent, Stacey took control of her manuscript and submitted it to small publishers. She eventually found a publisher who appreciated the Italian aspects of her story, leading to the book’s publication.

Themes and Impact

  • Role Models: Stacey emphasizes the importance of having role models and support systems in the writing community. She highlights the need for stories about strong women and the impact they can have on readers.
  • Cultural Significance: The hosts discuss how Oriana Fallaci is a well-known figure in Europe but remains relatively unknown in America, raising questions about the visibility of women’s stories in literature and media.

Conclusion

  • Final Thoughts: Stacey encourages aspiring writers to persevere and not give up on their dreams. She shares her belief that age and environment play significant roles in a writer’s journey.
  • Recommendations: The episode concludes with Stacey recommending local spots in New Jersey, particularly along the Hudson River, and expressing her gratitude for the opportunity to share her story.

Closing Remarks

The hosts thank Stacey for her insights and encourage listeners to read Oriana, highlighting the importance of supporting local authors and bookstores, specifically the Watchung Bookstore in Montclair, NJ.

TODAY SHOW EXECUTIVE PRODUCER TO LEADERSHIP COACH – 

Meet Jo LaMarca Mathisen, a dynamo in the media industry with a dazzling 25-year journey that includes clinching an Emmy for her groundbreaking work on the Today Show. Her expertise isn’t just confined to media; she’s a transformative leadership coach, meticulously trained under the tutelage of Dr. Sylvia LaFair for over two decades. Joanne’s passion lies in empowering individuals to soar beyond limitations.

Her work at Creative Energy Options has done just that. Here, she tailors her approach to both individuals and businesses, offering bespoke coaching that promises a journey toward a life filled with joy and equilibrium.

But that’s not all. Joanne is a trailblazer in championing better care for women navigating menopause. She’s a treasure trove of insights, offering essential resources and strategies to gracefully manage menopause symptoms. Currently, she’s merging forces with renowned journalist and TV host Tamsen Fadal, working on an eye-opening documentary about menopause.

Discover how a leadership course dramatically shifted her life’s trajectory, helping her redefine her mindset and inject new energy into her career.

Don’t miss this insightful and empowering discussion on career, women’s health, and leadership.

QUOTE:
“In 5 years, when your alarm goes off, where are you, who are you with, what clothes are you putting on, where are you going, what are you doing?”

TOPICS COVERED:

  • Leadership Management Coach
  • We bring our past into our lives every day
  • How does it hold us back at work?
  • “Getting Current”
  • Trusting your Gut
  • Should Janette let her kids throw a party? NO
  • Should Rachel cook for her family? NO
  • George Costanza Rule
  • Menopause
  • Men Please Listen
  • Roger for the win
  • Tamsen Fadal
  • Often get Misdiagnosed
  • Documentary
  • To HRT or not to HRT that is the question
  • Gabapentin to help sleep through the night
  • Estradiol Vaginal cream
  • Intrarosa
  • Symptoms: Hot Flashes, Insomnia, Joint Pain, Weight Gain, Depression, Mood Swings, Anxiety. Ear Ringing, lack of libido, vaginal dryness

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Interview Summary

(00:01) Career and Personal Life Discussion With Joanne

Joanne’s impressive career from Dow Jones and CNBC to NBC News and the Today Show is discussed, as well as her current role as a leadership coach and working with Tamsen Fidal on a documentary about menopause. Joanne shares her experience of having her own medical clinic that specializes in women’s health, and her insights on why doctors are not better trained in women’s health topics. Jeanette and Rachel also chat with Joanne about Long Island and shopping at Roosevelt Field Mall in their childhoods, and Jeanette shares her experience with the Today Show Dad Makeover special.

(11:28) Leadership, Family, and Personal Growth

Joanne’s journey from childhood to adulthood was not easy, but she was able to overcome the obstacles of her upbringing to achieve her dreams. Taking a leadership course and living her truth enabled her to be promoted at work and get married. Her husband also took the same course, which helped to strengthen their relationship. Speaking up at work can help to advance in one’s career, and our experiences shape our daily lives.

(21:04) Menopause

We discuss the difficulty of making decisions and the different approaches we can take when making them, such as the George Costanza rule and the five second rule from Glennon Doyle. We also explore how aging can help us make better decisions, and how understanding the symptoms of menopause can help us better support the women in our lives.

(25:16) The Menopause Experience and Documentary

We explore how menopause affects women of all ages and how symptoms can manifest differently in women over 40. We discuss the physical and emotional symptoms of menopause, the stigma associated with it, and the importance of having support and resources. Joanne and Tamisin’s journey to create a documentary to raise awareness about menopause and their mission to help women navigate this complex and often misunderstood transition in life is also discussed.

(36:48) Non-Hormonal Options for Menopause Relief

We discuss treatments and remedies for menopausal symptoms, from prescription and non-prescription drugs to lifestyle changes. We explore the efficacy of GAVA pen for hot flashes and insomnia, as well as the potential benefits of estradiol cream. We also discuss the importance of talking to a doctor about all the different options and the possibility of going to a specialized women’s healthcare facility. Finally, we consider how symptoms can manifest differently in women over 40 and how to cope with them.

 

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