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Garden State Greatness: The New Jersey Hall of Fame

What does it really take to turn dreamers into heroes?

In this inspiring episode of Lost in Jersey, we sit down with Steve Edwards, President of the New Jersey Hall of Fame, to explore the secrets of success he’s learned from interviewing over 100 of the Garden State’s most extraordinary achievers.

Born and raised in Jersey (on the very same date as Bruce Springsteen and Jason Alexander!), Edwards has dedicated his life to celebrating the state’s legacy of grit, creativity, and resilience. He shares how the Hall of Fame grew from an idea into a one-of-a-kind destination at American Dream Mall complete with interactive holograms of legends like Frankie Valli and Judy Blume, designed to inspire the next generation of heroes.

Along the way, Edwards reflects on his personal story and his moving new documentary Lucky Jack, which follows his father’s remarkable journey from high school dropout to neurosurgeon. His perspective is a reminder that perseverance, imagination, and consistency can turn even the toughest challenges into triumphs.

This year’s New Jersey Hall of Fame 2025 inductees include icons like the Jonas Brothers, Martin Brodeur, Sydney McLaughlin-Levrone, David Bryan, The Isley Brothers, and one of our previous guests, Michael Uslan. The upcoming 17th induction ceremony on November 21st, hosted by Danny DeVito, promises to be a celebration of Jersey spirit you won’t want to miss.

Whether you’re a lifelong Jersey fan, a seeker of inspiration, or just love a great underdog story, this episode will leave you believing in the power of dreams and the Garden State’s heroes who make them real.

👉 Listen now and discover why everyone needs a hero.

Arts & Letters

  • Dana Bash, CNN chief political correspondent, anchor of “Inside Politics with Dana Bash” and Co-Anchor of “State of the Union with Jake Tapper and Dana Bash

  • Mary Alice Williams, Emmy Award-winning broadcast journalist, a founding anchor of CNN, and former anchor for NJTV News

Enterprise

  • Frank Bisignano, Commissioner of the United States Social Security Administration
  • David Burke, renowned restaurateur and culinary innovator
  • Lawrence R. Inserra, Jr., chairman & CEO of Inserra Supermarkets, Inc.
  • Zygi Wilf, businessman, real estate developer, chairman and co-owner of the Minnesota Vikings

Performing Arts & Entertainment

  • David Bryan, keyboardist for rock band Bon Jovi and Tony Award-winning lyricist and composer
  • The Isley Brothers, Grammy Award-winning music group
  • Jonas Brothers, award-winning pop band
  • Michael E. Uslan, originator and executive producer of the Batman movie franchise

Public Service

  • John P. Keegan, chairman and CEO, Charles Edison Fund and Edison Innovation Foundation
  • Lieutenant Governor Sheila Y. Oliver* New Jersey’s second Lieutenant Governor and the first woman of color elected to statewide office in the state’s history
  • William Edward Simon*, businessman, philanthropist, and former United States Secretary of the Treasury
  • David T. Wilentz*, former attorney general of New Jersey and founder of law firm Wilentz, Goldman, and Spitzer

Sports

  • Martin Brodeur, former ice hockey goaltender and current team executive for the New Jersey Devils
  • Hubie Brown, former basketball player, analyst, and two-time NBA Coach of the Year
  • Sydney McLaughlin-Levrone, Olympic gold medalist and world record holder in the 400-meter hurdles

* Being honored posthumously.

0:00 – Intro: Welcome to Lost in Jersey
0:38 – Growing up in Union
2:00 – Rock band days and Jersey roots
3:20 – Founding the New Jersey Hall of Fame
5:30 – Building the Hall of Fame museum at American Dream Mall
7:45 – Interactive holograms & exhibits 
8:40 – Why Jersey pride and heroes matter
10:05 – How inductees are chosen each year
12:25 – First induction ceremony & Bruce Springsteen’s reaction
15:20 – The formula for success: dream, persevere, never give up
18:45 – Overcoming adversity: stories of inductees & Steve’s own journey
21:30 – Steve’s documentary Lucky Jack and his father’s legacy
24:30 – Reflections on resilience, faith, and purpose
27:00 – Why kids need heroes today
30:15 – Optimism, community, and history repeating
32:30 – 2025 Induction Ceremony details (Nov 21 at American Dream Mall)
34:00 – Steve’s love for New Jersey & closing thoughts

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What do Bruce Springsteen, the Jonas

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Brothers, Einstein, and Michael Uzlin

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all have in common? They’re part of the New

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Jersey Hall of Fame.

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In this episode of Lost in Jersey, we sit

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down with Hall president Steve Edwards to

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talk about this year’s inductees,

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the museum at American Dream,

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and why Jersey grit and heroes matter now

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more than ever.

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Welcome to Lost in Jersey, Steve.

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Thank you for having me.

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– Give us a bit of your background how is

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Jersey a part of your life how did you get

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here I was born on Jersey soil 1962 same

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Hospital Beth Israel Hospital on the same day

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as Jason Alexander and Bruce Springsteen

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September 23rd Jason was actually born

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I think four years before me on the same

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day in the same hospital

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Bruce was born down in Monmouth County

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and then

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um went home to Union, New Jersey, and

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New Jersey has been my home

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ever since.

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It’s in my blood. I

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can remember some of my earliest memories

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were on the beach at Belmar

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and Bradley Beach.

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Matter of fact, I was an aspiring musician

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even in 1965.

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I was three years old,

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and I was on a stage.

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The Pavilion, I don’t know if it’s still there,

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in Belmar.

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And they did a little talent show and I

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sang, I’m Henry the 8th I am,

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Henry the 8th I am, I am, and whatever else

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was rest of the song.

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And I got done, like a little short one

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minute thing.

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everybody applauded,

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and I sang it again. And

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then again, and everyone.

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I

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mean, let me do this four times.

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Finally, the woman running the talent show

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is like stress.

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She’s got 10 other kids to put on.

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She literally miled and pulled me off the stage.

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And my mom said, eat

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the ham.

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That’s,

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yes,

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absolutely.

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That’s a good story.

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Did you continue with the showmanship for,

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as you grew up?

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You know, as a matter of fact, I did.

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I was lead singer in a rock band

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in the 1970s called Satellite

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in Union, New Jersey.

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junior high and high school concerts and

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battle of the bands, and we played in a

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local pizzeria. And

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true story, we played at a carnival

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and our roadies managed to shut the

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electricity down at the entire carnival.

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People were screaming on the

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Ferris wheel.

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They plugged our equipment into the wrong thing.

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never forget that.

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Awesome.

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And my career was over by 77.

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So you grew up in New Jersey and have you

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stayed in New Jersey for a career? Yeah,

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we did move to Florida

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for about six months.

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We went back to Elizabeth, New Jersey.

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just did a documentary feature film on.

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the eviction man in Elizabeth in 1970, and

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we went to

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Mexico for about a year.

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down there.

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my mom said,

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We came back to Union.

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went to Rutgers, and as you know, I’m

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president of the New Jersey Hall of Fame.

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I’ve been on the Jersey Shore for

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60 years.

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And we love New York too.

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I have an apartment in New York in the

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interest of full disclosure in Trebek.

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We weren’t gonna disclose that or like look

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it up or anything.

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I just went, by the way, to my 45th high

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school reunion.

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And my question was always, where are you

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living? This is a nice way to break the ice. Yeah.

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most everybody surprised me and said New

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Jersey.

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Florida and South Carolina, whatever,

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one California,

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but I would say

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85% were still in Jersey.

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So that’s good.

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That is,

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that’s impressive.

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People who are here, you know, they see

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that it’s a unique, wonderful, beautiful

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place to live.

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The beaches, the mountains,

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the forests, and then the city.

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No doubt about it.

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Anyone who’s lived here knows that.

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And you also highlight all the incredible

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people that are from New Jersey.

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We want to talk about

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how you got yourself involved in the New

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Jersey Hall of Fame.

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Now you’re the founder, one of the

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founders.

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I think two people are the founders of it.

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had come up with the crazy idea back in

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2002, but long story short,

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in New Jersey, and it ran its course.

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It was defunct financially and so forth.

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And I happened to call George Zoffinger,

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who was running the Sports Exposition

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Authority at the time.

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And I said, What do you think about a crazy

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idea, New Jersey Hall of Fame?

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He said, It’s so funny

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that you say this, because we were thinking

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of turning

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the Sports Hall of Fame into the Sports and

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Entertainment Hall of Fame.

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But I like what you just said about Edison

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and Einstein and people from all walks of life.

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So the legislature finally officially

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created the New Jersey Hall of Fame in 2004,

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and then we had our first induction

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ceremony in 2008.

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I don’t know what we did for four years,

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and I don’t know how I got away.

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I do remember like a year and a half out.

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Bart Oates, the former center with the

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Giants was the chairman,

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and he’s like, Steve,

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we got to do an induction already.

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And I’m like, Bart.

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Let’s get it right.

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There’s a lot of things to think through,

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but you know,

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we started doing it in 2008 and we’re

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coming up on our 17th induction ceremony and

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we don’t miss a beat now.

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So I think we,

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we’re smart to take our time.

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And you’re an American dream now.

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you know, there are only three state

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halls of fame in the entire United States.

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Oh, really? What are the other two?

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California and South Dakota. Um,

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They’re the most mature hall of fame.

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California, actually, Maria Shriver,

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Mark Shriver, who I worked with at Save the

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We’re the first state though, that has

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state-of-the-art, interactive and immersive

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museum.

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And that’s what’s that

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American dream.

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And I can talk forever about it, but

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suffice it to say it’s a 10,000 square foot

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state state-of-the-art museum.

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I’ll give you two little tidbits. We’ve

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got the Model T that’s on display that

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gifted to Thomas Edison

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in 1916.

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One of the most valuable cars in the world,

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permanently displayed at our museum. Wow.

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What’s cool about that car is they

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literally, and there’s video footage of it.

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They literally took road trips together.

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Ford would drive,

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Edison in the passenger seat.

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He couldn’t hear Edison.

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So everything was like, what did you just

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say? The engine was so left.

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And Henry Firestone would be in the back,

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the guy that did the tires.

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video, there’s video footage of our car.

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I say, our, it’s not ours.

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It’s the Edison Foundation.

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But it’s so cool.

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And then, but most everything else, that’s

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like an old fashioned artifact we remember

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from museums we’ve been to for years.

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Most of the museum is hologram centric

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you can sing alongside Wycliffe John

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singing, we’ve filmed him, a special

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Gloria Gaynor,

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I Will Survive,

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Ty Yellow Ribbon, and so many more.

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doing that, and if you dare, you can share it

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um, you know, stuff like that.

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television studio where you could sit down

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and be a host

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for about 15, 20 minutes and interview a

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hologram of father, Stevie Van Zant or

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that you can interview.

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to 15 questions.

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How do I write my first book?

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Stevie? Really what this place is about, I

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we really want to provide

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children and adults with heroes

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and wisdom

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so they could

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realize their own

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highest and best sense of self and

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hopefully for the greater good.

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listeners to come in.

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pilgrimage at least once.

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It’s 10,000 square feet, but it’s so

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immersive that it could be 100,000 square

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feet once you start getting

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the exhibits and you start interacting with them.

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I hope the two of you and your listeners

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for sure

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we

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we plan on coming when you go to

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to the American Dream Mall how do you get

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to your location is it visible is it easy

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to find because I know that place is pretty

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huge everyone’s saying complains to me ah

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Steve I can’t find it it’s so easy

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If you park in any parking lot, follow the

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signs for the theme park and the water park.

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Signs are everywhere.

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When you get in front of the theme park,

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which is amazing, Nickelodeon Universal

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theme park, they’ve got a roller coaster,

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which is the,

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to date, the steepest vertical drop

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in the world.

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When you’re standing in front of that

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Nickelodeon Universal theme park,

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turn around.

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You’ll see an escalator.

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Actually, if you turn around and you look

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up, you’ll see the Hall of Fame

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at the top of

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the third floor escalator.

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park and just turn around,

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you’re going to find this.

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Right. Third

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floor, third floor.

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Third floor, third floor.

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Awesome.

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Okay,

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who was the first inductee that you got? So

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I’ll tell you the criteria is you have to

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have lived here at least five years. Okay.

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strictest

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criteria.

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I’ve lived here five years.

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I’ve been here five years.

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There you go.

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I’m gonna check one box also. Okay,

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let’s go.

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box. One

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box.

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The California and South Dakota is if you

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lived any portion of your life.

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It sounds like they’re desperate for crying

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out loud.

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We’re five years.

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We got so much talent.

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You have to- Yeah, yeah.

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There’s too many great people here. Yeah. You

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have to have lived here for five years.

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We

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have a master list.

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So anyone that wants to nominate anyone can

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go to njhalloffame.org

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and they could fill out a form.

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We vet it and then, you know, we’ve got a

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couple thousand names that are on the

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master list.

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we send it off to an expert panelists once

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a year around January.

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They narrowed down six different

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categories, 120 names,

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those that we create a battle

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that goes to an academy, which is 350

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prominent organizations, former governors,

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very grassroots, you know,

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and they help narrow to the top 60.

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And then we put every year around April, we

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put the top 60 ballot out

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and

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the public gets to give us their input.

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And then our board of trustees makes the

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final decisions, usually between 15 and 20.

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inductees every year, all walks of life,

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all parts of Jersey.

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Can you share the categories with us just

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so our listeners can know? Well, it’s,

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let’s see, it’s arts and letters.

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Which would be novelists and things like that.

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It is arts and entertainment, it’s sports,

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it’s public service,

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and it’s enterprise.

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and I’m missing one

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historical figures maybe I yeah oh I think

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that we changed it recently so if you go to

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the website you’ll see them they

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have an educator of the year that’s an

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inductee

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itself

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and then we have an unsung hero which we’re

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about to announce this year’s in in a

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couple of weeks very high profile

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person that is an unsung hero if that makes

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any sense that’s how we do it the first ones

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were Edison Einstein well I want you to

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imagine this

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It’s 2008. No one

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around the state, including the governor at

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the time, what the heck is the New Jersey

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Hall of Fame?

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Bruce Springsteen was so skeptical.

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He told us that night, like, what’s New

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Jersey?

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He actually joked around in a speech and he said,

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does Connecticut have a Hall of Fame?

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Does New York have a Hall

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of Fame? Maybe they feel they don’t need one.

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But anyway,

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so we’re, so it’s the opening of the show and

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we did what we call a dramatic lineup

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and the spotlight hits.

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And it’s General Schwarzkopf saluting the crowd.

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And then it goes to Toni Morrison,

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Nobel Peace Prize winner.

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And then it goes to Yogi Berra.

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And then it

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goes to Buzz Aldrin.

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And it goes to Nancy Sinatra going all

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these incredible.

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And then at the end, you hear, there’s one

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silhouette left.

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Everyone starts yelling, Bruce,

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Bruce.

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there was Bruce.

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And he said,

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you know,

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not to me, he said it to a

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friend of mine.

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He’s like, I didn’t really expect this.

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You know, this was pretty good.

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That had been just that lineup for the first.

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I mean,

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you answered his question, like, why? You

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know, because,

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I mean, that’s the whole thing.

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When you moved to New Jersey,

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That’s, I think, the thing that strikes you

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the most, especially if you’re coming from

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New York City, which both Rachel and I

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moved here from New York City,

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is that you just put your kid in school,

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and you just happen to be at a playground,

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and you’re talking to someone, and they’re

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telling you what they do, and it’s so

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impressive.

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Part of the

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mission is to get that word out about

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Jersey, but we don’t lose any sleep.

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The two of you know this, and we don’t

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really care.

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It’s more about us feeling good and we have

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every right to.

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That’s what our annual induction ceremony

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is like.

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Once a year, let’s take time to come

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together and feel great about ourselves. Yeah.

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But the more important issue,

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we live in such chaotic times

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and our children are getting bombarded

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with negative images and angry rhetoric.

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This is a chance,

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the Hall of Fame and organizations like it,

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to just say, No,

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look here.

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Look for your hearings.

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Look for the wisdom.

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Look for your purpose.

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Have faith.

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Stay focused on your sacred, blessed

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missions

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that are good for the world.

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And that’s what

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we’re really passionate about, most of the

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organizers, for the Hall of Fame.

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Yeah, it seems like it.

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And I like that you use the word heroes and

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wisdom because

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sometimes, you know,

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every hero has a backstory and what they’ve

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overcome and they have resilience.

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It’s not just like

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they woke up and were

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a celebrity or well known for an invention.

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And you read about Edison, you read about

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Einstein

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and Bruce, you get

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it’s grit

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and perseverance.

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Well, yeah, it’s interesting you bring

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those up.

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Our

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tagline is everyone needs a hero. Okay.

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There is a formula.

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I, I’ve interviewed by now over a hundred

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of these inductees for hologram interviews.

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I have,

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I have my own podcast.

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We’re launching Legends of America.

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That’s going to be launched in a few weeks.

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That sounds great.

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Yeah, maybe I should have showed that, but,

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um, we’ll, we’ll work with each other to

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lift each other.

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That’s what it’s all about. Uh,

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but you know,

505
00:16:01,440 –> 00:16:05,000
there is a formula and the formula is for

506
00:16:05,000 –> 00:16:06,000
each one of them

507
00:16:06,720 –> 00:16:07,600
to dream dream, to

508
00:16:08,000 –> 00:16:10,640
tap into your imagination, to think of

509
00:16:10,640 –> 00:16:11,520
yourself and your

510
00:16:11,920 –> 00:16:13,360
highest best sense of self,

511
00:16:13,920 –> 00:16:15,600
and to do that a lot

512
00:16:15,840 –> 00:16:17,000
throughout the day, because we’re all the

513
00:16:17,000 –> 00:16:18,480
sum of all our thoughts.

514
00:16:18,800 –> 00:16:20,160
And in this world where you’re being

515
00:16:20,160 –> 00:16:22,080
bombarded with negative thoughts, it’s so

516
00:16:22,080 –> 00:16:23,960
important for you to be the one with

517
00:16:23,960 –> 00:16:24,640
discipline,

518
00:16:24,880 –> 00:16:26,480
to spend most of your day dreaming.

519
00:16:27,240 –> 00:16:28,000
And then,

520
00:16:28,400 –> 00:16:30,400
you know, I call it just a really good

521
00:16:30,400 –> 00:16:33,280
to-do list, the most strategic, clever,

522
00:16:33,600 –> 00:16:36,640
that takes time for family and friends and

523
00:16:36,640 –> 00:16:38,480
charity and all of the above, a good

524
00:16:38,480 –> 00:16:39,200
balanced life,

525
00:16:39,600 –> 00:16:42,600
and executing day by day, being consistent.

526
00:16:43,040 –> 00:16:43,840
And then

527
00:16:44,160 –> 00:16:46,640
the Jersey grit thing, man, just being

528
00:16:46,640 –> 00:16:49,200
relentless and consistent and never giving

529
00:16:49,200 –> 00:16:51,760
up because you could do the first three,

530
00:16:52,080 –> 00:16:54,560
but you’re going to face adversity along

531
00:16:54,560 –> 00:16:55,040
the way,

532
00:16:55,520 –> 00:16:56,640
and it’s so easy

533
00:16:57,080 –> 00:16:58,880
to give up, you know? I mean,

534
00:16:59,200 –> 00:17:00,880
like in so many cases, we don’t

535
00:17:01,120 –> 00:17:02,960
even have as many family and friends

536
00:17:03,400 –> 00:17:04,960
encouraging us as we should.

537
00:17:05,120 –> 00:17:06,400
It’s probably

538
00:17:06,680 –> 00:17:08,240
a formula that’s been around since the

539
00:17:08,240 –> 00:17:09,040
beginning of time.

540
00:17:09,720 –> 00:17:10,080
Absolutely.

541
00:17:10,160 –> 00:17:12,080
So the formula that you’ve seen,

542
00:17:12,560 –> 00:17:14,160
let me just want to summarize this so that

543
00:17:14,160 –> 00:17:15,600
I can make sure that I’m doing it.

544
00:17:18,920 –> 00:17:19,560
Dream. So

545
00:17:20,320 –> 00:17:21,440
you have to dream.

546
00:17:22,080 –> 00:17:23,840
And then you, you have to

547
00:17:24,560 –> 00:17:26,720
just be persistent and work hard.

548
00:17:27,560 –> 00:17:30,640
Because I spent many years dreaming about

549
00:17:30,640 –> 00:17:31,440
the wrong things.

550
00:17:31,440 –> 00:17:32,160
It was more,

551
00:17:32,400 –> 00:17:33,680
I was a shallow guy.

552
00:17:33,840 –> 00:17:35,600
I’m not going to hesitate to tell you my

553
00:17:35,600 –> 00:17:37,200
twenties into my thirties.

554
00:17:38,080 –> 00:17:40,120
Some, my mom and others would say, that’s

555
00:17:40,120 –> 00:17:41,040
not true, Stephen.

556
00:17:41,040 –> 00:17:42,560
You’ve always done charity work,

557
00:17:42,800 –> 00:17:44,640
but I put too much emphasis

558
00:17:45,040 –> 00:17:45,600
on money

559
00:17:46,080 –> 00:17:47,840
in the material world. Okay.

560
00:17:48,680 –> 00:17:48,800
Um,

561
00:17:49,200 –> 00:17:50,800
and so I was dreaming about the wrong

562
00:17:50,800 –> 00:17:51,280
things.

563
00:17:51,640 –> 00:17:53,680
I wasn’t dreaming about Steve and his

564
00:17:53,680 –> 00:17:54,920
highest best sense of self.

565
00:17:55,040 –> 00:17:56,880
which has nothing to do with money it’s

566
00:17:56,880 –> 00:17:59,240
just a little small piece of of my life

567
00:18:00,280 –> 00:18:02,760
um so Jamie about the right thing we’re all

568
00:18:02,760 –> 00:18:04,680
figments of our imagination

569
00:18:04,920 –> 00:18:06,760
this was something David geffin the music

570
00:18:06,760 –> 00:18:08,120
executive pointed out

571
00:18:08,360 –> 00:18:10,280
so we’re all figments of our imagination

572
00:18:10,840 –> 00:18:12,360
it’s just that some of us are better

573
00:18:12,360 –> 00:18:13,080
imagining

574
00:18:13,400 –> 00:18:14,120
than others

575
00:18:14,520 –> 00:18:14,840
okay

576
00:18:15,080 –> 00:18:16,120
so you got to dream

577
00:18:16,440 –> 00:18:17,160
about the right

578
00:18:17,640 –> 00:18:19,880
person that you really want to be deep down

579
00:18:20,200 –> 00:18:21,240
you’ve got

580
00:18:21,880 –> 00:18:23,960
find your heroes and the wisdom they have

581
00:18:23,960 –> 00:18:25,960
to offer because you have to be strategic

582
00:18:25,960 –> 00:18:27,080
you can work hard

583
00:18:27,880 –> 00:18:29,400
but not really be moving

584
00:18:29,640 –> 00:18:31,640
towards your dream fast enough because

585
00:18:31,640 –> 00:18:33,080
you’re not being strategic

586
00:18:33,640 –> 00:18:33,920
okay

587
00:18:34,720 –> 00:18:36,440
um and then it’s getting up every day

588
00:18:36,880 –> 00:18:39,360
whether you’re sore you know it’s cold out

589
00:18:39,360 –> 00:18:39,960
whatever

590
00:18:40,200 –> 00:18:43,240
being consistent executing that to-do list

591
00:18:43,240 –> 00:18:44,920
you know having fun doing it

592
00:18:45,400 –> 00:18:46,200
and then never

593
00:18:46,680 –> 00:18:47,200
giving up.

594
00:18:47,200 –> 00:18:49,080
So this is my explanation.

595
00:18:49,160 –> 00:18:50,200
There’s people listening.

596
00:18:50,280 –> 00:18:52,040
Oh, that’s too technical and it’s too

597
00:18:52,040 –> 00:18:53,800
retentive, anal retentive, whatever.

598
00:18:53,960 –> 00:18:54,680
But you know what?

599
00:18:54,920 –> 00:18:57,240
It is that, you know, you got to touch

600
00:18:57,240 –> 00:18:58,680
certain bases every day.

601
00:18:59,000 –> 00:19:00,520
How many people altogether have you

602
00:19:00,520 –> 00:19:01,480
inducted into the

603
00:19:02,040 –> 00:19:03,000
New Jersey Hall of Fame?

604
00:19:03,280 –> 00:19:06,000
Great question, but I think around 250.

605
00:19:06,320 –> 00:19:06,480
Okay.

606
00:19:06,600 –> 00:19:08,200
About 250 people.

607
00:19:08,360 –> 00:19:10,840
So there’s a common thread, I’m assuming,

608
00:19:10,960 –> 00:19:13,080
like what you just described, adversity.

609
00:19:14,040 –> 00:19:16,120
But I will tell you this, and this was

610
00:19:16,120 –> 00:19:17,960
something else, I saw a common thread.

611
00:19:18,600 –> 00:19:21,960
Every single person that’s been inducted

612
00:19:22,200 –> 00:19:23,560
has overcome

613
00:19:24,040 –> 00:19:24,960
one adversity

614
00:19:25,280 –> 00:19:26,360
or another.

615
00:19:26,920 –> 00:19:28,880
In most cases, multiple

616
00:19:29,320 –> 00:19:29,840
adversity.

617
00:19:29,840 –> 00:19:31,080
So I’ll give you an example,

618
00:19:31,720 –> 00:19:32,840
well, Bruce Springsteen.

619
00:19:33,560 –> 00:19:34,080
Bruce

620
00:19:34,360 –> 00:19:37,640
had a really challenging childhood with his

621
00:19:37,640 –> 00:19:38,120
father.

622
00:19:38,600 –> 00:19:38,960
And

623
00:19:40,480 –> 00:19:42,360
his mom, by the way, was such a sweetheart.

624
00:19:42,360 –> 00:19:44,280
She came to our first three ceremonies.

625
00:19:44,280 –> 00:19:46,440
She was so supportive of Bruce, I think

626
00:19:46,440 –> 00:19:47,800
bought him his first guitar.

627
00:19:48,120 –> 00:19:50,040
But he grew up in a very challenging

628
00:19:50,520 –> 00:19:51,240
environment.

629
00:19:51,400 –> 00:19:53,000
And then he had his own problems with

630
00:19:53,000 –> 00:19:54,440
depression, yet another

631
00:19:55,160 –> 00:19:57,880
significant adversity he continues to have

632
00:19:57,880 –> 00:19:58,600
to overcome.

633
00:19:59,000 –> 00:20:01,880
Tom Kane, Governor Kane, believe it or not,

634
00:20:01,880 –> 00:20:03,640
stuttered and had dyslexia.

635
00:20:03,880 –> 00:20:05,080
He talked about this

636
00:20:05,320 –> 00:20:07,320
when I interviewed him for the podcast

637
00:20:07,320 –> 00:20:08,280
recently, and he

638
00:20:08,520 –> 00:20:09,880
did it for the hologram interview.

639
00:20:10,440 –> 00:20:12,600
Tom Kane, one of the most articulate,

640
00:20:12,600 –> 00:20:15,160
distinguished public servants of all time,

641
00:20:15,320 –> 00:20:17,560
had to overcome that very significant

642
00:20:17,560 –> 00:20:18,200
adversity.

643
00:20:19,000 –> 00:20:21,800
So this is something, adversity, I’m very

644
00:20:21,800 –> 00:20:23,400
passionate about because

645
00:20:23,800 –> 00:20:24,280
I went through

646
00:20:24,600 –> 00:20:27,320
a really tremendous burden on my shoulders

647
00:20:27,320 –> 00:20:28,040
as a kid.

648
00:20:28,680 –> 00:20:31,880
I went through a windshield in 1970.

649
00:20:33,080 –> 00:20:35,280
My mom and I went head on with a Budweiser

650
00:20:35,280 –> 00:20:37,560
Beard Mack truck in front of Kean College.

651
00:20:38,040 –> 00:20:41,720
I had over 300 stitches in my face last…

652
00:20:42,120 –> 00:20:42,520
Right.

653
00:20:42,520 –> 00:20:45,400
Three blood transfusions, ears hanging, jaw

654
00:20:45,400 –> 00:20:46,920
broken, teeth knocked out,

655
00:20:47,240 –> 00:20:49,400
lots of plastic surgery in the years that

656
00:20:49,400 –> 00:20:49,960
followed.

657
00:20:50,200 –> 00:20:53,200
And I was, I needed growth hormone shots,

658
00:20:53,200 –> 00:20:54,960
so I wouldn’t make it to five feet tall.

659
00:20:54,960 –> 00:20:56,000
And I had ADD. I

660
00:20:56,280 –> 00:20:58,360
was failing in school so much.

661
00:20:58,400 –> 00:21:00,040
All of our inductees that overcame

662
00:21:00,040 –> 00:21:02,200
adversity had similar moments.

663
00:21:02,800 –> 00:21:05,000
But for me, it was power of prayer,

664
00:21:05,400 –> 00:21:07,560
praying to God for three years and being

665
00:21:07,560 –> 00:21:08,560
bitter and angry.

666
00:21:08,560 –> 00:21:10,720
And why did this happen? And how do I get

667
00:21:10,720 –> 00:21:11,160
through this?

668
00:21:11,560 –> 00:21:12,120
And I,

669
00:21:12,440 –> 00:21:14,120
sometime in ’73,

670
00:21:14,520 –> 00:21:17,400
remember what I thought was God, and maybe it was,

671
00:21:17,880 –> 00:21:18,840
saying, Steve,

672
00:21:19,080 –> 00:21:20,760
what happened to you

673
00:21:21,160 –> 00:21:21,720
happened?

674
00:21:22,040 –> 00:21:23,240
There’s no taking it back.

675
00:21:23,240 –> 00:21:25,720
You alone have the opportunity

676
00:21:26,040 –> 00:21:27,880
to overcome this adversity

677
00:21:28,840 –> 00:21:29,480
or not.

678
00:21:30,000 –> 00:21:32,920
The empowering part was the thing I heard or not.

679
00:21:33,240 –> 00:21:33,960
It’s up to you.

680
00:21:34,360 –> 00:21:38,040
But if you decide not to, don’t complain to me.

681
00:21:38,600 –> 00:21:40,520
I mean, I get goose pimples thinking like,

682
00:21:40,840 –> 00:21:41,360
it was such a,

683
00:21:42,200 –> 00:21:44,560
such an epiphany moment lying there in bed

684
00:21:44,560 –> 00:21:46,120
at night, Union, New Jersey,

685
00:21:46,680 –> 00:21:48,040
around midnight, you know.

686
00:21:48,840 –> 00:21:50,120
Anyway, so

687
00:21:50,680 –> 00:21:52,280
I hope that helps somebody out there.

688
00:21:52,520 –> 00:21:53,480
For sure.

689
00:21:53,680 –> 00:21:54,120
And then

690
00:21:54,520 –> 00:21:56,520
I think that’s kind of a good segue into

691
00:21:56,520 –> 00:21:58,840
this documentary about your father called

692
00:21:58,840 –> 00:21:59,640
Lucky Jack.

693
00:21:59,720 –> 00:22:01,640
Just even reading a little bit about it

694
00:22:01,640 –> 00:22:03,400
from the press and all that, it’s

695
00:22:03,480 –> 00:22:04,520
fascinating.

696
00:22:04,520 –> 00:22:06,120
And just even you mentioning in the

697
00:22:06,120 –> 00:22:08,040
beginning, driving down to Mexico for your

698
00:22:08,040 –> 00:22:09,560
father to go to medical school.

699
00:22:09,960 –> 00:22:12,040
So can you tell a little bit about the film?

700
00:22:12,440 –> 00:22:12,840
Yes,

701
00:22:13,640 –> 00:22:14,520
Lucky Jack.

702
00:22:15,160 –> 00:22:17,800
It’s a story about my dad and really my mom,

703
00:22:18,040 –> 00:22:19,560
very much so, as well.

704
00:22:20,120 –> 00:22:22,600
My dad grew up in the Seth Boyden Housing

705
00:22:22,600 –> 00:22:23,960
Project in Newark

706
00:22:24,640 –> 00:22:27,880
in the 1930s, ’40s, into the ’50s.

707
00:22:28,200 –> 00:22:29,880
Very dysfunctional family.

708
00:22:30,200 –> 00:22:32,200
His dad was an alcoholic.

709
00:22:32,200 –> 00:22:33,640
He died of cirrhosis of the liver.

710
00:22:33,640 –> 00:22:34,440
My grandfather,

711
00:22:34,760 –> 00:22:37,320
when my dad, I think, was around 17, 18

712
00:22:37,320 –> 00:22:37,880
years old.

713
00:22:37,960 –> 00:22:39,880
His mom was bipolar.

714
00:22:40,280 –> 00:22:42,920
And had a congenital heart condition, fine

715
00:22:42,920 –> 00:22:44,920
is that he always wanted to be a doctor,

716
00:22:44,920 –> 00:22:45,880
even in these,

717
00:22:46,680 –> 00:22:47,960
bad circumstances,

718
00:22:48,360 –> 00:22:50,760
but he never applied himself at school, and

719
00:22:50,760 –> 00:22:52,440
so in 19 fifty-three.

720
00:22:53,520 –> 00:22:55,080
uh, Week Wake High School in Newark.

721
00:22:55,400 –> 00:22:58,600
He flunked every course, including Jim.

722
00:22:58,600 –> 00:23:00,200
I don’t know how you flunked Jim,

723
00:23:00,680 –> 00:23:01,320
but he did.

724
00:23:01,320 –> 00:23:02,520
Then drifted

725
00:23:02,840 –> 00:23:04,520
like a Walter Mitty character.

726
00:23:04,840 –> 00:23:06,440
One failed misadventure.

727
00:23:06,440 –> 00:23:08,360
He always had a big dream, but he just,

728
00:23:08,360 –> 00:23:10,440
everything never worked out and he failed.

729
00:23:10,920 –> 00:23:11,480
And then,

730
00:23:12,400 –> 00:23:14,360
um, 1966,

731
00:23:14,760 –> 00:23:16,440
he was 30 years old.

732
00:23:16,440 –> 00:23:18,360
We were living in Elizabeth, New Jersey. Um,

733
00:23:19,480 –> 00:23:19,960
wife

734
00:23:20,280 –> 00:23:22,840
and two children, unemployed, part-time

735
00:23:22,840 –> 00:23:23,960
pizza delivery man.

736
00:23:24,360 –> 00:23:25,400
He smoked a joint.

737
00:23:26,040 –> 00:23:28,920
He put on man of Lamanch’s impossible dream.

738
00:23:29,560 –> 00:23:31,720
He put on a smock that he wore.

739
00:23:31,960 –> 00:23:33,800
He drew blood at a local hospital. And

740
00:23:34,280 –> 00:23:36,280
he looks in the mirror and he says, I see a

741
00:23:36,280 –> 00:23:37,720
doctor staring back.

742
00:23:37,720 –> 00:23:39,240
It was his epiphany moment.

743
00:23:39,640 –> 00:23:40,600
And he said, not just

744
00:23:40,920 –> 00:23:42,600
a doctor, but a brain surgeon.

745
00:23:43,400 –> 00:23:46,040
To make a long story short, nine years later,

746
00:23:46,440 –> 00:23:49,160
I was making rounds with him at Mount Sinai

747
00:23:49,160 –> 00:23:50,520
Hospital in New York City,

748
00:23:50,920 –> 00:23:52,600
standing in the back of the operating

749
00:23:52,600 –> 00:23:53,960
theater, watching him and his,

750
00:23:54,360 –> 00:23:54,760
you know,

751
00:23:55,000 –> 00:23:55,320
those

752
00:23:55,720 –> 00:23:59,640
godlike doctors and nurses saving people’s lives.

753
00:23:59,960 –> 00:24:01,920
So it’s an inspirational story.

754
00:24:01,920 –> 00:24:04,000
It’s a Jersey grit story, but it’s also a

755
00:24:04,000 –> 00:24:05,400
human grit story.

756
00:24:05,880 –> 00:24:06,200
And it

757
00:24:07,320 –> 00:24:07,560
gets

758
00:24:07,800 –> 00:24:08,840
complicated.

759
00:24:10,440 –> 00:24:12,480
what his he morphed into a

760
00:24:12,840 –> 00:24:14,680
Marcus Willoughby type of general

761
00:24:14,680 –> 00:24:17,000
practitioner, then back into the operating

762
00:24:17,000 –> 00:24:18,360
room during neurosurgery.

763
00:24:18,600 –> 00:24:19,800
It was like a house surgeon.

764
00:24:19,800 –> 00:24:22,040
He was doing all kinds of surgeries. And

765
00:24:23,040 –> 00:24:26,280
quite tragically, he contracted hep C

766
00:24:26,520 –> 00:24:27,480
in the operating room,

767
00:24:27,840 –> 00:24:30,280
which is an occupational hazard for

768
00:24:30,520 –> 00:24:31,640
doctors and nurses.

769
00:24:31,640 –> 00:24:34,120
But the best part about this film, I think,

770
00:24:34,200 –> 00:24:35,800
is to see and hear

771
00:24:36,280 –> 00:24:37,640
how he reflected

772
00:24:37,880 –> 00:24:39,120
in those final days.

773
00:24:39,120 –> 00:24:40,440
He had no regrets.

774
00:24:40,600 –> 00:24:41,800
The name of his boat

775
00:24:42,360 –> 00:24:43,720
was called Arete.

776
00:24:43,720 –> 00:24:45,080
It’s ancient Greek

777
00:24:45,320 –> 00:24:45,880
wisdom.

778
00:24:45,880 –> 00:24:47,320
It means actualizing

779
00:24:47,640 –> 00:24:49,400
your highest best sense of self

780
00:24:49,720 –> 00:24:51,960
with a moral excellence of character and

781
00:24:51,960 –> 00:24:53,160
for the greater good.

782
00:24:53,640 –> 00:24:54,040
That was

783
00:24:54,560 –> 00:24:57,240
what Plato, Aristotle, and Socrates

784
00:24:57,240 –> 00:24:59,000
referred to as the essence of life.

785
00:24:59,240 –> 00:25:01,080
And interestingly enough, as we’re coming

786
00:25:01,080 –> 00:25:02,720
up on the 250th

787
00:25:03,240 –> 00:25:05,880
anniversary of America next year,

788
00:25:06,600 –> 00:25:09,160
Our founding generation looked to concepts

789
00:25:09,160 –> 00:25:09,880
like Arete.

790
00:25:09,880 –> 00:25:11,600
You could find it in the ideals of the

791
00:25:11,600 –> 00:25:12,600
Constitution.

792
00:25:13,640 –> 00:25:16,440
He just reflected, you know what? I did

793
00:25:16,480 –> 00:25:17,680
what I set out to do.

794
00:25:17,680 –> 00:25:19,160
I made the world a little better.

795
00:25:20,520 –> 00:25:23,480
And he felt, and he had faith at that point.

796
00:25:24,120 –> 00:25:24,760
For him,

797
00:25:25,080 –> 00:25:25,480
his

798
00:25:25,960 –> 00:25:28,440
faith was that I’m going to be a powerful

799
00:25:28,920 –> 00:25:31,120
beam of light that’s going to travel the

800
00:25:31,120 –> 00:25:31,800
universe.

801
00:25:32,360 –> 00:25:33,560
And then I’m going to come back.

802
00:25:33,800 –> 00:25:34,880
He said, I just have a hunch.

803
00:25:34,880 –> 00:25:35,960
I’m going to come back as a

804
00:25:36,600 –> 00:25:39,480
poor Indian boy in a village in India. He

805
00:25:39,720 –> 00:25:40,280
felt like

806
00:25:40,600 –> 00:25:41,120
that was my dad.

807
00:25:41,560 –> 00:25:41,640
I

808
00:25:41,880 –> 00:25:42,040
love

809
00:25:42,280 –> 00:25:42,360
it.

810
00:25:42,760 –> 00:25:44,280
What an extraordinary person.

811
00:25:45,760 –> 00:25:46,840
He really was.

812
00:25:47,080 –> 00:25:49,160
Everyone that met Jack loved him.

813
00:25:50,200 –> 00:25:50,880
He was the

814
00:25:51,160 –> 00:25:53,960
mayor of the Liberty State Landing Marina,

815
00:25:53,960 –> 00:25:54,840
slipped one.

816
00:25:56,120 –> 00:25:58,440
Always helping people out and waving to

817
00:25:58,440 –> 00:25:59,160
people.

818
00:25:59,720 –> 00:26:01,560
And we miss him. He

819
00:26:01,880 –> 00:26:05,040
left us in 2006, but I stay connected with

820
00:26:05,040 –> 00:26:07,080
him every single day, and I will

821
00:26:07,320 –> 00:26:08,360
till the end of my life.

822
00:26:08,520 –> 00:26:11,560
It’s no surprise that you have landed

823
00:26:11,880 –> 00:26:14,280
in a career where you are.

824
00:26:15,080 –> 00:26:17,720
you know, exposed to people who are

825
00:26:18,520 –> 00:26:20,680
making their dreams come true and that you

826
00:26:20,680 –> 00:26:22,520
haven’t had that experience so closely.

827
00:26:22,640 –> 00:26:24,480
And highlighting heroes when seeing a real

828
00:26:24,480 –> 00:26:25,320
live one at

829
00:26:25,640 –> 00:26:25,760
home.

830
00:26:26,040 –> 00:26:26,840
Well, that’s right.

831
00:26:26,840 –> 00:26:28,280
And, you know, part of this,

832
00:26:28,680 –> 00:26:30,120
recently the Hall of Fame

833
00:26:30,440 –> 00:26:32,600
was going to benefit children throughout

834
00:26:32,600 –> 00:26:33,240
the world.

835
00:26:33,240 –> 00:26:34,120
It was sort of

836
00:26:36,200 –> 00:26:37,880
outgrowth of my work with Save the

837
00:26:37,880 –> 00:26:38,520
Children.

838
00:26:39,000 –> 00:26:42,080
And when my dad passed in 2006, I had a

839
00:26:42,080 –> 00:26:43,560
tough time for a few years.

840
00:26:43,560 –> 00:26:44,920
I was bitter, I was angry.

841
00:26:46,440 –> 00:26:47,400
But I channeled

842
00:26:47,800 –> 00:26:48,200
that

843
00:26:49,640 –> 00:26:51,480
very difficult time through the Hall of

844
00:26:51,480 –> 00:26:53,160
Fame, and we changed course.

845
00:26:53,640 –> 00:26:55,640
I was able to convince our state leaders,

846
00:26:56,040 –> 00:26:56,200
let’s

847
00:26:56,600 –> 00:26:57,960
focus on children.

848
00:26:58,080 –> 00:26:59,640
So can you tell us a little bit about your

849
00:26:59,640 –> 00:27:00,600
background with

850
00:27:01,000 –> 00:27:02,480
Save the Children? You’ve mentioned it a

851
00:27:02,480 –> 00:27:02,960
few times.

852
00:27:03,000 –> 00:27:04,120
You’ve always had a

853
00:27:04,440 –> 00:27:06,120
kind of a drive to help children?

854
00:27:06,440 –> 00:27:08,280
Yeah, I sure did. And

855
00:27:08,640 –> 00:27:11,800
Save the Children started for me in another

856
00:27:11,800 –> 00:27:13,160
low point of my life

857
00:27:13,880 –> 00:27:15,400
around 1997.

858
00:27:15,880 –> 00:27:18,040
And I went with the president of Save the

859
00:27:18,040 –> 00:27:20,120
Children, Charlie McCormick and Nancy

860
00:27:20,120 –> 00:27:21,640
Tussig and a few others.

861
00:27:21,880 –> 00:27:24,040
I went to Nicaragua and El Salvador.

862
00:27:24,440 –> 00:27:26,520
And I saw what they were, the great work

863
00:27:26,520 –> 00:27:28,360
they were doing, they continue to do to

864
00:27:28,360 –> 00:27:28,920
this day.

865
00:27:29,560 –> 00:27:31,960
And I was really moved.

866
00:27:32,520 –> 00:27:34,200
But how grateful

867
00:27:34,680 –> 00:27:35,880
parents down there

868
00:27:36,120 –> 00:27:36,440
are

869
00:27:36,680 –> 00:27:38,440
to me and to Save the Children

870
00:27:38,840 –> 00:27:39,720
for helping them.

871
00:27:39,720 –> 00:27:40,920
It really moved me.

872
00:27:40,920 –> 00:27:42,360
I’m like, wow, they

873
00:27:43,000 –> 00:27:44,520
need us, you know? And

874
00:27:45,720 –> 00:27:48,240
the bottom line is I feel the same way here.

875
00:27:48,240 –> 00:27:49,720
I mean, there’s so many people.

876
00:27:49,960 –> 00:27:50,160
So

877
00:27:50,440 –> 00:27:51,800
I think it’s a point worth

878
00:27:52,120 –> 00:27:54,240
mentioning the Charlie Kirk thing happened

879
00:27:54,240 –> 00:27:54,920
yesterday,

880
00:27:55,320 –> 00:27:55,960
two days ago.

881
00:27:55,960 –> 00:27:57,320
It was so awful.

882
00:27:57,880 –> 00:28:01,000
my daughters were saw the video they’re really

883
00:28:01,400 –> 00:28:02,120
affected by it

884
00:28:02,440 –> 00:28:04,880
I think is super important

885
00:28:05,240 –> 00:28:07,320
whether you believe Charlie Kirk or not

886
00:28:08,040 –> 00:28:10,520
nobody should be killed violence come on we

887
00:28:10,520 –> 00:28:13,760
also should reflect every day that 99% of

888
00:28:15,080 –> 00:28:15,880
the world

889
00:28:16,200 –> 00:28:18,440
is not about that and nobody wants to hurt

890
00:28:18,440 –> 00:28:20,840
each other even if their civil discourse is

891
00:28:20,840 –> 00:28:21,720
not so great

892
00:28:22,280 –> 00:28:23,680
um it’s a safe world 99.99%

893
00:28:24,200 –> 00:28:26,520
of the time um

894
00:28:27,800 –> 00:28:28,360
So

895
00:28:28,680 –> 00:28:30,840
I just think that going back to Save the

896
00:28:30,840 –> 00:28:31,560
Children,

897
00:28:32,360 –> 00:28:35,120
we’re all living 8 billion people on planet Earth,

898
00:28:35,400 –> 00:28:37,400
200 nation states.

899
00:28:37,400 –> 00:28:39,720
We all have the same existential threats.

900
00:28:40,200 –> 00:28:42,680
We all got to start working

901
00:28:43,000 –> 00:28:43,600
nicely.

902
00:28:43,600 –> 00:28:45,560
Even if we disagree with each other,

903
00:28:45,800 –> 00:28:46,520
we got to

904
00:28:46,760 –> 00:28:47,240
work

905
00:28:47,560 –> 00:28:49,560
nicely and keep moving forward.

906
00:28:50,040 –> 00:28:50,600
So

907
00:28:51,080 –> 00:28:51,560
Anyway,

908
00:28:51,800 –> 00:28:53,320
I digressed a little bit. Sorry.

909
00:28:53,560 –> 00:28:56,240
No, I mean, it’s on everybody’s mind, so I

910
00:28:56,240 –> 00:28:57,000
understand it.

911
00:28:57,400 –> 00:28:58,800
The one other thing you said that has

912
00:28:59,400 –> 00:29:01,240
been playing back in my mind is about…

913
00:29:01,960 –> 00:29:05,400
You know, with all our kids are bombarded

914
00:29:05,640 –> 00:29:07,080
now with imagery

915
00:29:07,440 –> 00:29:07,640
of

916
00:29:08,040 –> 00:29:09,960
violence on social media, just

917
00:29:09,960 –> 00:29:11,800
conversations, thoughts, all the thoughts

918
00:29:11,800 –> 00:29:13,160
that aren’t their own thoughts.

919
00:29:13,200 –> 00:29:14,360
And you were saying you need

920
00:29:14,640 –> 00:29:15,320
to dream

921
00:29:15,720 –> 00:29:17,920
so that you can think of your own thoughts

922
00:29:17,920 –> 00:29:19,440
and have time away from that.

923
00:29:19,880 –> 00:29:20,080
So

924
00:29:20,360 –> 00:29:23,400
I, you just hit the nail on the head

925
00:29:23,800 –> 00:29:25,640
because my dad used to say it all the time,

926
00:29:25,640 –> 00:29:27,720
we’re a sum of all our thoughts

927
00:29:28,040 –> 00:29:30,960
and we can will so many great things to

928
00:29:30,960 –> 00:29:31,560
happen.

929
00:29:32,200 –> 00:29:34,520
Yesterday, because of the Charlie Kirk

930
00:29:35,480 –> 00:29:36,120
tragedy,

931
00:29:36,600 –> 00:29:36,840
I

932
00:29:37,800 –> 00:29:40,120
said to my wife and two daughters, let’s go

933
00:29:40,120 –> 00:29:42,760
to the park and let’s go back to where we

934
00:29:42,760 –> 00:29:45,000
used to go when they were little kids. Let’s

935
00:29:45,680 –> 00:29:47,680
see all the smiling kids and all the

936
00:29:47,680 –> 00:29:49,720
parents and see all the good in the world

937
00:29:50,120 –> 00:29:51,880
and quiet our minds.

938
00:29:52,360 –> 00:29:54,280
I just said to both my daughters, I’d give

939
00:29:54,280 –> 00:29:55,880
them little pep talks, whether they like it

940
00:29:55,880 –> 00:29:56,280
or not.

941
00:29:56,280 –> 00:29:58,040
Usually I think they roll their eyes,

942
00:29:58,360 –> 00:30:00,840
but I said, weekends are about resetting.

943
00:30:01,280 –> 00:30:03,320
No matter what’s happened, reset,

944
00:30:03,800 –> 00:30:06,040
quiet the mind and get excited about the

945
00:30:06,040 –> 00:30:08,360
challenge coming up the following week

946
00:30:08,920 –> 00:30:12,120
and control those thoughts and be careful.

947
00:30:12,440 –> 00:30:14,360
That’s why I always encourage them to see

948
00:30:14,360 –> 00:30:16,120
good movies and read and

949
00:30:16,440 –> 00:30:18,680
listen to great music. And

950
00:30:19,000 –> 00:30:21,160
we’re, we’re going to have to learn and I’m

951
00:30:21,160 –> 00:30:21,960
confident,

952
00:30:22,600 –> 00:30:23,800
we’re going to just have to.

953
00:30:24,280 –> 00:30:26,360
We’re all going to become experts at

954
00:30:26,440 –> 00:30:27,480
regulating

955
00:30:29,080 –> 00:30:31,720
self-regulating what we’re taking into our

956
00:30:31,720 –> 00:30:33,880
brains, what we’re thinking about

957
00:30:34,360 –> 00:30:34,920
and

958
00:30:35,560 –> 00:30:36,680
calming ourselves.

959
00:30:36,680 –> 00:30:38,680
Meditation, yoga, stretching.

960
00:30:39,160 –> 00:30:39,680
Yeah.

961
00:30:39,680 –> 00:30:40,600
I mean, we’re going to be, we’re

962
00:30:41,000 –> 00:30:42,120
going to have to do that.

963
00:30:42,600 –> 00:30:43,160
We have to.

964
00:30:43,160 –> 00:30:43,800
We can’t.

965
00:30:43,800 –> 00:30:45,600
We can’t keep what we’re doing on this path

966
00:30:45,600 –> 00:30:45,880
because

967
00:30:46,440 –> 00:30:48,520
obviously we’re sustainable each other. Yeah.

968
00:30:49,000 –> 00:30:50,320
I agree with both of you.

969
00:30:50,320 –> 00:30:51,080
It’s not

970
00:30:51,320 –> 00:30:52,280
sustainable.

971
00:30:52,600 –> 00:30:54,760
I’m always an optimist because if you look

972
00:30:54,760 –> 00:30:56,440
at this country and you look at world

973
00:30:56,440 –> 00:30:58,400
history, certainly children, to

974
00:30:58,680 –> 00:31:01,080
remember history, to read up, to be good at,

975
00:31:01,360 –> 00:31:03,320
because history always repeats itself and

976
00:31:03,640 –> 00:31:04,760
you can learn from it.

977
00:31:04,920 –> 00:31:06,120
We’re going to overcome

978
00:31:06,680 –> 00:31:06,920
this.

979
00:31:07,000 –> 00:31:08,360
We’ve overcome

980
00:31:09,000 –> 00:31:11,720
two world wars and a depression.

981
00:31:11,720 –> 00:31:13,320
And as Warren Buffett says,

982
00:31:13,720 –> 00:31:14,280
Never back

983
00:31:14,520 –> 00:31:17,560
against American and human ingenuity.

984
00:31:18,200 –> 00:31:19,000
As you had said,

985
00:31:19,400 –> 00:31:22,080
your own experience of what was spoken to

986
00:31:22,080 –> 00:31:24,200
you is that you can either take what you’ve

987
00:31:24,200 –> 00:31:27,000
gone through, which is what we’re all going

988
00:31:27,000 –> 00:31:29,080
through collectively in the country,

989
00:31:29,480 –> 00:31:32,280
and make it better, do something good with

990
00:31:32,320 –> 00:31:33,120
it, or not.

991
00:31:33,240 –> 00:31:35,240
Just let it, you know, let’s try.

992
00:31:35,560 –> 00:31:36,840
Exactly right.

993
00:31:36,920 –> 00:31:38,280
I know there’s a couple of questions that

994
00:31:38,280 –> 00:31:40,200
Rachel wanted to ask you that I want her to

995
00:31:40,200 –> 00:31:40,920
get in here.

996
00:31:40,920 –> 00:31:43,000
Who calls the person that tells them

997
00:31:43,080 –> 00:31:44,680
they’re going to be inducted in the Hall of

998
00:31:44,680 –> 00:31:47,240
Fame and what are some of those reactions

999
00:31:48,480 –> 00:31:49,400
who calls them

1000
00:31:49,760 –> 00:31:49,880
um

1001
00:31:50,200 –> 00:31:51,320
we send a letter

1002
00:31:51,600 –> 00:31:54,680
okay many of them have gotten a tip off by

1003
00:31:54,680 –> 00:31:56,440
someone that may have nominated them

1004
00:31:57,360 –> 00:31:59,320
um but they get a letter I’m sure they

1005
00:31:59,320 –> 00:32:01,360
frame it I mean why not I you know

1006
00:32:02,440 –> 00:32:03,800
Bruce Springsteen at his

1007
00:32:04,440 –> 00:32:05,560
during his speech said

1008
00:32:05,920 –> 00:32:07,920
when I got the letter I saw

1009
00:32:08,200 –> 00:32:09,000
Edison

1010
00:32:09,360 –> 00:32:10,520
Einstein. My mom.

1011
00:32:11,320 –> 00:32:11,680
Seriously.

1012
00:32:12,160 –> 00:32:12,320
Yeah.

1013
00:32:13,000 –> 00:32:13,120
Yes.

1014
00:32:13,880 –> 00:32:14,640
Show your mom.

1015
00:32:17,400 –> 00:32:18,760
First thing to do, show your mom.

1016
00:32:20,120 –> 00:32:21,000
That’s pretty great.

1017
00:32:21,040 –> 00:32:22,520
When they come to the museum,

1018
00:32:22,800 –> 00:32:24,360
a lot of them have come recently for the

1019
00:32:24,360 –> 00:32:25,080
podcast.

1020
00:32:25,080 –> 00:32:26,440
It’s my throwaway line.

1021
00:32:26,680 –> 00:32:29,960
Addison, Einstein, and Tony Orlando.

1022
00:32:31,840 –> 00:32:32,600
They love it.

1023
00:32:32,600 –> 00:32:33,880
How do you not love that one?

1024
00:32:34,520 –> 00:32:34,800
I know.

1025
00:32:35,600 –> 00:32:36,160
It’s perfect.

1026
00:32:36,520 –> 00:32:38,360
Is the induction ceremony,

1027
00:32:38,920 –> 00:32:41,360
is it Is it like a concert or is it closed

1028
00:32:41,480 –> 00:32:43,240
video or how does that, what is the

1029
00:32:43,240 –> 00:32:44,440
induction ceremony like?

1030
00:32:45,000 –> 00:32:47,080
So we’re going to be releasing information.

1031
00:32:47,320 –> 00:32:51,080
Our induction ceremony is usually a live

1032
00:32:51,080 –> 00:32:51,800
ceremony.

1033
00:32:51,800 –> 00:32:53,400
This year it’s going to be on the ice

1034
00:32:53,400 –> 00:32:54,360
feeding rink

1035
00:32:54,840 –> 00:32:57,880
at American Dream, just steps away from our

1036
00:32:57,880 –> 00:32:59,000
museum. Yep.

1037
00:32:59,320 –> 00:33:03,320
And it’s going to be Friday, November 21st.

1038
00:33:03,640 –> 00:33:05,640
Danny DeVito is emceeing.

1039
00:33:06,440 –> 00:33:07,080
We’ve got

1040
00:33:07,480 –> 00:33:08,600
David Bryan from

1041
00:33:08,840 –> 00:33:10,120
Bon Jovi’s band

1042
00:33:10,840 –> 00:33:12,600
is going to be inducted.

1043
00:33:12,600 –> 00:33:14,040
Bon Jovi will be there.

1044
00:33:14,680 –> 00:33:17,080
Jonas Brothers are being inducted this year.

1045
00:33:17,080 –> 00:33:18,120
They’ll be there.

1046
00:33:18,440 –> 00:33:20,320
It’s going to be an incredible event.

1047
00:33:20,320 –> 00:33:22,920
We’ll release information within a couple

1048
00:33:22,920 –> 00:33:23,400
of weeks

1049
00:33:24,520 –> 00:33:25,240
on ticketing.

1050
00:33:25,240 –> 00:33:27,400
There’s limited tickets available,

1051
00:33:27,800 –> 00:33:28,600
but we do make

1052
00:33:28,840 –> 00:33:30,280
some available to the public.

1053
00:33:30,920 –> 00:33:32,200
It’s just a great night.

1054
00:33:32,360 –> 00:33:34,320
I encourage your listeners, if they want to

1055
00:33:34,320 –> 00:33:37,000
see any of the acceptance speeches for the

1056
00:33:37,240 –> 00:33:38,200
first 16 ceremonies.

1057
00:33:38,200 –> 00:33:39,000
I have watched some of

1058
00:33:39,560 –> 00:33:39,720
those.

1059
00:33:40,120 –> 00:33:40,440
It’s great.

1060
00:33:40,480 –> 00:33:41,000
They’re amazing.

1061
00:33:41,000 –> 00:33:43,480
They’re swan songs from some of the most

1062
00:33:43,480 –> 00:33:45,160
legendary people that have lived in the

1063
00:33:45,160 –> 00:33:47,080
state and are unsung heroes and

1064
00:33:47,320 –> 00:33:48,760
Educator of the Year awards.

1065
00:33:48,760 –> 00:33:49,320
And we’ve got

1066
00:33:49,880 –> 00:33:51,800
birthday scholarship winners every year.

1067
00:33:51,800 –> 00:33:53,960
It’s not just about famous people, you know?

1068
00:33:54,720 –> 00:33:56,280
And, um, it’s a fun night.

1069
00:33:56,280 –> 00:33:57,400
I hope you guys can make

1070
00:33:57,720 –> 00:33:58,600
maybe the next. Yeah.

1071
00:33:58,920 –> 00:33:59,080
Yeah.

1072
00:33:59,400 –> 00:34:00,040
I would love to.

1073
00:34:00,280 –> 00:34:02,440
Well, maybe I can be inducted. Yeah.

1074
00:34:02,640 –> 00:34:03,560
Well, I’ll nominate

1075
00:34:04,280 –> 00:34:04,600
you. Um,

1076
00:34:05,640 –> 00:34:06,840
our final question

1077
00:34:07,240 –> 00:34:09,360
is we’d like to ask our guest.

1078
00:34:10,000 –> 00:34:11,560
Tell us something that you love

1079
00:34:11,800 –> 00:34:12,760
about New Jersey.

1080
00:34:12,840 –> 00:34:13,800
I love the people.

1081
00:34:13,800 –> 00:34:15,760
Obviously, I’m in the people business with

1082
00:34:15,760 –> 00:34:17,760
the Hall of Fame, so there’s so many people

1083
00:34:17,760 –> 00:34:18,840
that make me laugh.

1084
00:34:18,840 –> 00:34:21,080
There’s so many people, family, friends

1085
00:34:21,080 –> 00:34:22,440
that love me and I love them.

1086
00:34:22,760 –> 00:34:25,160
I think I’m going to answer it the same way

1087
00:34:25,400 –> 00:34:27,800
most people in New Jersey answer it, I

1088
00:34:27,800 –> 00:34:29,800
think, which is our beaches,

1089
00:34:30,120 –> 00:34:30,920
that ocean.

1090
00:34:30,960 –> 00:34:31,640
A lot of people.

1091
00:34:31,800 –> 00:34:33,320
Ironman, the sky,

1092
00:34:34,480 –> 00:34:35,560
that salt air.

1093
00:34:35,560 –> 00:34:38,280
It’s, I just love the Jersey Shore.

1094
00:34:38,800 –> 00:34:39,040
Oh my God.

1095
00:34:39,080 –> 00:34:41,480
It’s been a pleasure to talk to you and to

1096
00:34:41,480 –> 00:34:43,960
hear your story and hear your father’s story.

1097
00:34:43,960 –> 00:34:46,280
And it’s really, it does make us feel that,

1098
00:34:46,680 –> 00:34:49,400
you know, when you have some adversity,

1099
00:34:49,480 –> 00:34:51,200
that sometimes that can be the,

1100
00:34:51,560 –> 00:34:54,280
the engine to make your dreams come true.

1101
00:34:54,360 –> 00:34:56,240
But the worst days in your life are

1102
00:34:56,240 –> 00:34:58,200
ultimately gonna be the best day

1103
00:34:58,600 –> 00:34:59,520
that ever happened to you.

1104
00:34:59,520 –> 00:35:01,360
And obviously when you lose someone that

1105
00:35:01,360 –> 00:35:01,880
you love,

1106
00:35:02,320 –> 00:35:03,440
that’s adversity, that’s

1107
00:35:04,040 –> 00:35:04,840
difficult, but.

1108
00:35:05,520 –> 00:35:07,560
Bottom line is, yep, you got that choice.

1109
00:35:07,560 –> 00:35:10,680
Move away from it and on to better things or not.

1110
00:35:10,960 –> 00:35:11,240
And

1111
00:35:11,960 –> 00:35:13,480
please, for those that are out there

1112
00:35:13,480 –> 00:35:14,120
suffering,

1113
00:35:14,520 –> 00:35:15,800
choose, move on.

1114
00:35:16,160 –> 00:35:17,080
Keep moving forward.

1115
00:35:17,080 –> 00:35:18,920
Like Frank Sinatra once said, another

1116
00:35:18,920 –> 00:35:20,040
Jersey inductee,

1117
00:35:20,440 –> 00:35:22,120
he faced his share of adversity.

1118
00:35:22,560 –> 00:35:24,840
Just keep moving forward, baby.

1119
00:35:27,480 –> 00:35:28,960
Very good advice to

1120
00:35:29,240 –> 00:35:30,920
end this great interview on.

1121
00:35:30,920 –> 00:35:32,600
It was really nice to meet you.

1122
00:35:32,920 –> 00:35:34,560
Thank you so much for coming on Lost in

1123
00:35:34,560 –> 00:35:35,080
Jersey.

1124
00:35:35,240 –> 00:35:37,080
Ladies, I can’t thank you enough.

1125
00:35:37,240 –> 00:35:39,160
Have a wonderful Jersey day.

 

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