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Lost in Jersey was created by Janette Afsharian and Rachel Martens, two NYC expats who traded their shoebox apartments for the Garden State. Like many newcomers, they initially felt "Lost in Jersey" but have since embraced it as their home sweet home.

Through engaging interviews and lively discussions, they explore all things New Jersey—unearthing fascinating stories connected to the state. From "What's your connection to New Jersey?" to news, politics, family, arts, food, movies, and books, no topic is off-limits.

Pop on your headphones and join us as we celebrate the unique charm of New Jersey. Get lost in Jersey with us!

Rachel Martens

Rachel Martens

Co-Creator, Co-Host & Editor

Voice-over artist, writer, violinist, Montclair Story Salon member, reads a lot, and is the podcast sound engineer. Grew up in Long Island. Moved from Brooklyn to NJ. Has some kids, one husband, and a decent amount of friends. Finds life is okay most of the time, other times, it’s hilarious. Lives - in Jersey, just outside of NYC.

Janette Afsharian

Janette Afsharian

Co-Creator, Co-Host & Visuals

Graphic artist, coder, painter of an excessive amount of straight lines on canvas, and titan of digital design with a few awards. Does the tech and art for the podcast. Grew up in Iran/Texas. Moved from NYC to NJ. Has some kids, one husband, and a decent amount of friends. Finds life is okay most of the time, other times, distractions are needed. Lives - in Jersey, just outside of NYC. 

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Reviews!

Five Stars on Apple Podcast! Thank you! 

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Loved today’s (Yana’s) podcast! So fascinating not only her life but the fiance arm of the industry. Learned lots! Thank you!!!
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Michelle N.
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Cousin in Australia: “Hola primo! I’m listening Lost in Jersey Podcast, it’s such a great interview. Very funny as well”

5
Aguirre Family - Cousin
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“Loved that podcasts! Your hostesses were funny and nice! Loved your story telling!!! Feel like you should have more quickly clarified you DID NOT get a dui 😆 I learned some about you and that was fun! I think you were prob very good at accounting. You downplayed this.

5
Aguirre Family - Sister 3
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Whoa! Ladies! Just finished listening to your first episode and I am blown away! I giggled with you, I learned so much and it was really fun. Great interview with Chanda and great voices all around! Everyone needs to hop on and listen!

5
Liz
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Just spent my morning listening to this amazing first episode! So inspiring to spend my morning with three talented, creative, and cool women.

5
Georgette
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Okay, what do I have to do to be a guest on this? What a great idea!

5
Julie
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I thought the funniest thing you said was that you time how long it takes you to get home from the city, let people know, and that you are in your jammies. I truly laughed out loud on that one. It is hard to believe this is your first podcast. Stay the same, don’t change.

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Maria
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We were driving back from Vermont today and listened to every episode of lost in jersey. Rob described it as an introvert’s dream – it’s like being at a fascinating dinner party. Congrats to you, Rachel, and all your guests. 😘 👏

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Elizabeth
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We need part 2 of Roger’s episode.

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Steve
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I’ve listened to all the episodes and it might be one of my favorite shows. Every Monday, I want to hear who is on.

5
Maria
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You’re my new favorite people. I actually smiled the entire time I was listening. Thanks again for having me. It was a lot of fun chatting. – It’s Kimmunity approved!

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Kim
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I listened to the Craigslist’s episode on the way home and was so impressed by Craig’s openness to share about his growth to becoming a better person. Great episode!

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Roger
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Nice work on the Zanes’ podcast.

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William B.
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Oldest Sister: “Oh wow, Jorge. I’m watching now! I loved that they could pronounce your name properly. Both ladies are cute and smart.” Btw I’m following their podcasts now because I loved it. ”

5
Aguirre Family - Sister 1
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Thank you for providing the opportunity to listen to mtc candidates. It’s been very helpful and informative about the candidates and their positions (and ability/lack of ability to articulate them)

5
kpny - Spotify
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Loved today’s (Yana’s) podcast! So fascinating not only her life but the fiance arm of the industry. Learned lots! Thank you!!!
5
Michelle N.
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Cousin in Australia: “Hola primo! I’m listening Lost in Jersey Podcast, it’s such a great interview. Very funny as well”

5
Aguirre Family - Cousin
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“Loved that podcasts! Your hostesses were funny and nice! Loved your story telling!!! Feel like you should have more quickly clarified you DID NOT get a dui 😆 I learned some about you and that was fun! I think you were prob very good at accounting. You downplayed this.

5
Aguirre Family - Sister 3
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Whoa! Ladies! Just finished listening to your first episode and I am blown away! I giggled with you, I learned so much and it was really fun. Great interview with Chanda and great voices all around! Everyone needs to hop on and listen!

5
Liz
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Just spent my morning listening to this amazing first episode! So inspiring to spend my morning with three talented, creative, and cool women.

5
Georgette
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Okay, what do I have to do to be a guest on this? What a great idea!

5
Julie
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I thought the funniest thing you said was that you time how long it takes you to get home from the city, let people know, and that you are in your jammies. I truly laughed out loud on that one. It is hard to believe this is your first podcast. Stay the same, don’t change.

5
Maria
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We were driving back from Vermont today and listened to every episode of lost in jersey. Rob described it as an introvert’s dream – it’s like being at a fascinating dinner party. Congrats to you, Rachel, and all your guests. 😘 👏

5
Elizabeth
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We need part 2 of Roger’s episode.

5
Steve
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I’ve listened to all the episodes and it might be one of my favorite shows. Every Monday, I want to hear who is on.

5
Maria
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You’re my new favorite people. I actually smiled the entire time I was listening. Thanks again for having me. It was a lot of fun chatting. – It’s Kimmunity approved!

5
Kim
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I listened to the Craigslist’s episode on the way home and was so impressed by Craig’s openness to share about his growth to becoming a better person. Great episode!

5
Roger
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Nice work on the Zanes’ podcast.

5
William B.
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Oldest Sister: “Oh wow, Jorge. I’m watching now! I loved that they could pronounce your name properly. Both ladies are cute and smart.” Btw I’m following their podcasts now because I loved it. ”

5
Aguirre Family - Sister 1
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Thank you for providing the opportunity to listen to mtc candidates. It’s been very helpful and informative about the candidates and their positions (and ability/lack of ability to articulate them)

5
kpny - Spotify
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From Civil War to Civil Discourse: Desh Amila’s Mission to Get Us Talking
byRachel Martens and Janette Afsharian

What happens when you grow up in a war zone and decide the solution to division is… more conversation? For Desh Amila, witnessing the devastation of civil war in Sri Lanka shaped a lifelong mission: bringing people together to talk across differences with honesty, nuance, and humanity.

From reinventing the way Australia engages with big ideas—marketing philosophers and scientists like rock stars—to launching Thinkable in Montclair, New Jersey, Desh has built a global platform for curiosity and connection. His speaker series will feature voices as diverse as Ta-Nehisi Coates, Richard Dawkins, Cornel West, John Wood Jr., Steven Pinker, John McWhorter, and Masih Alinejad, drawing thousands to venues that feel more like concerts than lectures.

At the heart of it all is Desh’s belief: when you give people a chance to listen deeply—even to those they disagree with—you create not just understanding, but community.

Join us for a thought-provoking conversation about the power of dialogue, why ideas need stages as much as songs do, and how Montclair is becoming the latest home for this global movement.

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