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Get ready to be inspired! Join us as we chat with Anastasia Rubis about her debut novel, ORIANA. After 11 years of hard work, she published her first book in her 60s, and we’re betting it’ll be optioned for the big screen.

In ORIANA, Stacey explores the extraordinary life of journalist Oriana Fallac )(description below), and in our conversation, she opens up about perseverance, chasing dreams no matter your age, and shares how Oriana’s fierce determination became a role model for her own tenacity. Whether you’re an aspiring writer, a historical fiction fan, or need a little nudge to follow your dreams, this episode is for you!

We give the book 4 stars!  ⭐⭐⭐⭐

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Episode Summary

Interview with Anastasia Rubis (Stacey)

Introduction

In this episode, hosts Janette and Rachel interview Anastasia Rubis, known as Stacey, the author of ORIANA, a novel about the renowned journalist Oriana Fallaci. The hosts discuss Stacey’s background, her writing journey, and the inspiration behind her debut novel.

Stacey’s Background

  • Early Life: Stacey was born and raised in Queens, New York, until the age of eight, after which her family moved to Englewood Cliffs, New Jersey. She is of Greek descent, being a first-generation American.
  • Education: She graduated from Brown University and later earned a master’s degree in English from Montclair State University.
  • Career Path: Before becoming a writer, Stacey worked in advertising and public relations while pursuing her passion for writing in her free time.

The Writing Journey

  • Initial Writing Experience: Stacey began writing in New York City, contributing to publications like the New York Observer and the New York Times. She faced challenges in the freelance writing world, where acceptance rates were low.
  • Move to Montclair: After living in Manhattan for 14 years, Stacey moved back to New Jersey to be closer to family and chose Montclair for its vibrant cultural scene. She credits her time at Montclair State University and local bookstores for reigniting her passion for writing.

The Creation of ORIANA

  • Inspiration: Stacey’s interest in Oriana Fallaci began when she discovered Fallaci’s novel A Man while on vacation in Greece. This led her to explore Fallaci’s life and work, which she found compelling and inspiring.
  • Writing Process: The journey to publish Oriana took 11 years, during which Stacey faced numerous challenges, including working with multiple agents and navigating the publishing landscape during the COVID-19 pandemic.
  • Publishing Journey: After parting ways with her second agent, Stacey took control of her manuscript and submitted it to small publishers. She eventually found a publisher who appreciated the Italian aspects of her story, leading to the book’s publication.

Themes and Impact

  • Role Models: Stacey emphasizes the importance of having role models and support systems in the writing community. She highlights the need for stories about strong women and the impact they can have on readers.
  • Cultural Significance: The hosts discuss how Oriana Fallaci is a well-known figure in Europe but remains relatively unknown in America, raising questions about the visibility of women’s stories in literature and media.

Conclusion

  • Final Thoughts: Stacey encourages aspiring writers to persevere and not give up on their dreams. She shares her belief that age and environment play significant roles in a writer’s journey.
  • Recommendations: The episode concludes with Stacey recommending local spots in New Jersey, particularly along the Hudson River, and expressing her gratitude for the opportunity to share her story.

Closing Remarks

The hosts thank Stacey for her insights and encourage listeners to read Oriana, highlighting the importance of supporting local authors and bookstores, specifically the Watchung Bookstore in Montclair, NJ.

Unlocking the Art of Public Speaking

Introduction

We had the pleasure of interviewing Laurie LeFever, an adjunct professor of public speaking with over 20 years of experience. Laurie shared her journey from Brooklyn to New Jersey, her passion for teaching, and invaluable tips for improving public speaking skills. Whether you’re preparing for a speech, a meeting, or a family gathering, Laurie’s insights can help you communicate more effectively.

Meet Laurie LeFever

Laurie LeFever is not just a professor; she is a storyteller and a community builder. Originally from Brooklyn, she moved to Metuchen, New Jersey, where she created a close-knit neighborhood community. With a background in communications, Laurie has been teaching public speaking for over 28 years, helping students find their voice and confidence.

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The Importance of Authenticity

One of the key takeaways from our conversation with Laurie is the significance of authenticity in public speaking. She emphasizes that being yourself is crucial. Instead of trying to perform or adopt a character, speakers should focus on sharing their genuine thoughts and feelings. This approach fosters a connection with the audience, making the message more relatable and impactful.

Tips for Effective Public Speaking

Laurie shared several practical tips that can benefit anyone looking to improve their public speaking skills:

1. Breathe

Breathing is fundamental. Many speakers forget to breathe properly, which can lead to anxiety and a lack of clarity. Laurie encourages her students to take deep breaths, likening it to the comforting smell of chocolate chip cookies baking in the oven.

2. Embrace the Pause

There is “power in the pause.” Laurie advises speakers to embrace silence instead of filling every moment with words. Pausing allows the audience to absorb the message and gives the speaker a moment to collect their thoughts.

3. Limit Filler Words

Filler words like “um,” “like,” and “so” can detract from a speaker’s message. Laurie suggests that speakers become aware of their use of these words and practice speaking without them. This can be achieved by focusing on the content rather than the delivery.

4. Eye Contact

Making eye contact is essential for engaging the audience. Laurie encourages her students to look at one person at a time, which helps create a connection and makes the experience feel more personal.

5. Accept Imperfection

Laurie emphasizes that failure is a part of the learning process. She encourages her students to let go of the fear of making mistakes and to view public speaking as an opportunity for growth. The audience is generally supportive and wants the speaker to succeed.

The Journey of a Public Speaker

Laurie’s own journey as a public speaker has been filled with challenges and triumphs. She recalls her experience at a recent Montclair Film StorySlam (which she won) where she felt nervous and almost left multiple times. However, she learned to embrace her nerves and focus on the opportunity to share her story. This experience reinforced her belief that public speaking is a skill that can be developed over time.

Conclusion

Public speaking is an essential skill that can be learned and improved with practice. Laurie LeFever’s insights remind us that authenticity, preparation, and a willingness to embrace imperfection are key components of effective communication. Whether you’re speaking in front of a large audience or sharing a story at a family gathering, these tips can help you convey your message with confidence and clarity.

We hope you enjoyed this episode and found Laurie’s advice as inspiring as we did. Remember, the journey to becoming a better public speaker starts with a single step—so take a deep breath and get started!

Hear Laurie LeFever’s winning story at September 26, 2024 Montclair Film StorySlam

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